Dear UG Ladies - Advice for the Romantically Hopeless

No one seems to respond in this group anymore (well I posted here about 5 weeks ago and got no reply). Just go to the relationship thread in The Pit, you get a response within a couple of hours and it's much better.

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Alright, I have some trouble here, and there's these two girls that I like, but I am having trouble knowing which one I should potentially ask out...

First Girl
She's a Sophomore (I'm a senior). She likes the same music I do, I only recently met her this summer, but we get along real well. I'm 60% sure she likes me as well.

Second Girl
She's a Junior (It's just a coincidence they're all younger), but she doesn't go to the school I go to. She plays DnD with me and my friends, and is a good friend of mine. We get along real well, and I'm 80% sure she likes me as well.

I'm sorry if this sounds weird, but I like them both, and I can't decide. You can answer by commenting me or messaging me. Help me ladies of UG, you're my only hope.

-VMX

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Well I'm having a problem now, I mean I know I'm usually never in here, but I'm having a huge dillema now so I think it might be nice to get some outside advice on it.

So I've been planning on going out with this girl I've known for a few years. She's an amazing friend, she visited me when I was in hospital, listened to me ramble about all of that crap for weeks, and is probably one of the best friends I've ever had. She came out and told me she's really liked me for a long time and I agreed that we should try to see how it works and I was pretty excited about it until today.

Now I ran into another one of my friends who is feeling the same way about me and I mean I really did have feeings for her back when things were a bit tougher on us, we were both in hospital at the same time but have completly levelled out now. She's coming to school with me now and it's very exciting but I've realized that I'm having feelings for her... It's really bothering me because I don't want to hurt the first girl's feeli

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Girls, I need some help.
http://profile.ultimate-guitar.com/OddOneOut/blog/ 42547/

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-BlackZeppelin- wrote on Aug 23rd, 2008 at 4:08pm : I'm having trouble with... ..actually, wait... I'm not having trouble with anything. I'M FUCKING SEXY!!!!!!

nice

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I was absolute crap with girls before I found about the PUA online community, I could barely talk to the super-popular ones without stuttering or sound like an idiot. Most girls will deny it, but PUA game works. I'm not calling myself a "master pick up artist", as Mystery called it on his crap reality show, (which revealed some secrets to the game, I was pissed) but it helped my confidence so much. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and check out sedutionbase.com. Shit works.

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I ran out of room on my post below but my last sentence was supposed to be ' I severly doubt we'll be in any classes together'. But yeah to clue it up, what do you think I should do?

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Hey guys. I met a girl about two months ago when I went on a 6 day hike for something I'm involved with. We talked a fair bit on the last couple of days and I'm pretty sure she liked me. I told a couple of people about it (I also posted the story on the relationship thread here on UG) and they said I should go for it). The question is how I was going to talk to her from now on. It turned out she actually lives on the bottom of my street so she's very close by but I couldn't just go down to her house. I was planning on having a reunion type thing with people from the hike but it never happened because I couldn't host it because my house sucks for that and even if I could I wouldn't know who to invite because they couldn't all go because there were like 15 of us. Anyways it's been almost two months now and I haven't talked to her since although I have her on msn and facebook. We're going to be going to the same school this year (I'll be in grade 11 and she'll be in grade 12) but I severly doubt we'll have any c

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ok so my girlfriend's birthday is on september 21. and we turn 5 months on september 5.

so any ideas for gifts. ok i have the month one, basically is the beauty and the best soundtrack cd (she loves B&B and sings the songs while driving). but i want to surprise her in her birthday...something cool but not too expensive as well...

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-BlackZeppelin- wrote on Aug 23rd, 2008 at 4:08pm : I'm having trouble with... ..actually, wait... I'm not having trouble with anything. I'M FUCKING SEXY!!!!!!

:haha

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I'm having trouble with...

..actually, wait... I'm not having trouble with anything. I'M FUCKING SEXY!!!!!!

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guitargurl317 wrote on Aug 21st, 2008 at 2:15am : guitar98765432 wrote on Aug 20th, 2008 at 10:18pm : I'm having trouble thinking of a good birthday present for my girlfriend that's in my price range. We've only been dating around 2 months so I don't want to go overboard on the spending. Any suggestions? Earrings from Clairs.

Yeah, or a necklace. Pick her birth stone, it looks why more sweet

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guitar98765432 wrote on Aug 20th, 2008 at 10:18pm : I'm having trouble thinking of a good birthday present for my girlfriend that's in my price range. We've only been dating around 2 months so I don't want to go overboard on the spending. Any suggestions?

Earrings from Clairs.

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I'm having trouble thinking of a good birthday present for my girlfriend that's in my price range. We've only been dating around 2 months so I don't want to go overboard on the spending. Any suggestions?

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joined group for the hell of it. i live in stonington connecticut aka wigger town. there are about 2 girls in the state that dont go for douche bag stoner fake pimp gangster posers. ya and if those 2 girls exist, they probly dont like me anyway....
*walks away with realization of lower self esteem*

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I live in a town where everyone in my age group are all stoners, party animals and alcoholics. I am also in need of some really close friends. The problem I am getting to is, how do I meet people that share a common denominator with me and I will be able to trust them and enjoy myself with them? Maybe I am asking the wrong people as you ladies seem to be more about the love advice, but let me know what you think regardless...

Thanks gals;
][TheWizzerd][

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I'm having trouble finding a like-minded girl in my area for a relationship.

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I've no problem talking, joking, making friends (some might even say flirting, but it just seems natural conversation to me) and the like, but I can never manage to actually ask a girl out. Then after a while I give up 'cos I'm afraid of:
1) Rejection
2) The "friend-zone" (I hate that place )

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kidsilcon wrote on Aug 18th, 2008 at 5:01pm : StreetLight3989 wrote on Aug 18th, 2008 at 1:56am : If it's possible, what are some tips to get past the "friendzone"?Drug them, worked for me.

ahhh pit monkeys....

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StreetLight3989 wrote on Aug 18th, 2008 at 1:56am : If it's possible, what are some tips to get past the "friendzone"?

Drug them, worked for me.

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