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OddOneOut wrote on Feb 16th, 2009 11:26pm

Talk to the other girl less. The less you are around the other girl the more you can think of your girlfriend and the happier she will feel. Tell her how much you love her. Does she know how you feel about the other girl?

The same thing happened with my ex. he spent more time with her in the last month of our relationship than he had with me in the last few months. The more he was around her, the more he saw the flaws in me. The more I didn't want to be around him cos I knew he'd rather spend time with her. He cheated on me with her and then they started dating the day after I broke up with him.
Don't let that happen to you.

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p o e wrote on Feb 16th, 2009 11:16pm

I'm banned, so i can't ask the relationship thread.

My girlfriend and i are having a few problems, and i want to resolve them so we can be happy, and not broken up.

See, she thinks i don't really love her, that i'm just in it because she's my friend, and for the sex... Obviously this isnt true, i love her quite a lot. One of her major reasons for thinking this is that we don't talk on the phone as much as we used to... I can see why that would bother her, but why would she think i don't love her?

I guess i should mention, that another reason she may think this is because i've always had a thing for this other girl, who is a good friend of ours... I don't want to like her, she's just a nice girl, and ya know...

I've never cheated though, i promise. But if you guys could help me, i want to /not/ like the other girl.

So girls, how do i resolve this? I did my best on Valentines to make her feel loved, but i need to do more i guess.

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OddOneOut wrote on Feb 10th, 2009 8:04pm

LazyLatinoRocke wrote on Jan 30th, 2009 at 11:16am :


Why do girls do this? Whenever I ask a girl out, if she says no then she starts acting like my best friend (friend zone). She acts as if we were best friends for years so why do they do this?

Wow, stumped me there. I've never known any of my female friends to do this. Can anyone else shed some light?

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LazyLatinoRocke wrote on Jan 30th, 2009 4:16pm

Why do girls do this? Whenever I ask a girl out, if she says no then she starts acting like my best friend (friend zone). She acts as if we were best friends for years so why do they do this? :wtf:

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aaronob wrote on Jan 22nd, 2009 4:09am

V Yeah I check it every once in a while

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RocksAwakening5 wrote on Jan 17th, 2009 10:55pm

Love is in the air!

Is this group still running?

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Oblivion_Rps wrote on Dec 14th, 2008 8:08pm

I'm a very romantic person. I baked my friend a pizza when she came over. :D






... :p

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tands wrote on Dec 5th, 2008 2:31am

remember children, love isnt for everyone

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p o e wrote on Nov 26th, 2008 12:52am

Quick ladies, i need suggestions for romantic things to do when broke, stuck in the middle of no where, and only one day to prep!

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valennic wrote on Oct 30th, 2008 2:56am

OddOneOut wrote on Oct 29th, 2008 at 9:49pm :


valennic - Do you look the same as in your pictures now? I can see nothing wrong with your face and you're good looking. Any girl worth being with will like you as you are. They'll see a wonderful guy and that's all that matters.
Girls will 'look past your face' because personality and confidence is incredibly attractive. Heck, it's the only thing my boyfriend has going for him. Ok thats a bit of an exaggeration, but he's not the best looking bloke out there and I do love his personality more than his looks. It was the first thing attracted me to him.

If you have this incredible personality and you're funny and sweet, you've got it made. So chin up and go charm those girls til they drop at your feet.


My face is considerably less red, but there's scars now...:(

And thanks :) , I guess I just need to be myself then? And would more recent pictures help any? :p: Just tell me and I'll get some.

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OddOneOut wrote on Oct 30th, 2008 2:49am

valennic - Do you look the same as in your pictures now? I can see nothing wrong with your face and you're good looking. Any girl worth being with will like you as you are. They'll see a wonderful guy and that's all that matters.
Girls will 'look past your face' because personality and confidence is incredibly attractive. Heck, it's the only thing my boyfriend has going for him. Ok thats a bit of an exaggeration, but he's not the best looking bloke out there and I do love his personality more than his looks. It was the first thing attracted me to him.

If you have this incredible personality and you're funny and sweet, you've got it made. So chin up and go charm those girls til they drop at your feet.

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valennic wrote on Oct 30th, 2008 1:52am

This group has helped me before, and I'm sure it will again :)

Well, I'm finally free of the shackles of an overprotective and possesive friend...who was female....but....I'm in a rut now.

I'm having issues with girls, and I think I know the reason :( My face is....well...let's just say it's pretty fucked up...and I'm highly sensitive about it...this is a REAL confidence hurter, and it's my last one. I used to be fat, I'm not anymore. I work out VERY frequently now, and I'm pretty muscular. I just need something to get over my face thing....how many girls do you think would look past the face if I have an incredible personality? (I've been told I'm fucking hilarious, and that I'm very sweet....but I dont know :s )

Thanks for any help..

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RevaM1ssP1ss wrote on Oct 24th, 2008 1:35pm

acidrainman64 - why don't you just hang out with her? If not on her own, make an excuse to go see your friend at his house when she's around. Find an activity you can all enjoy... assuming they get along :p

tom-the-lawn - I'll assume that means you're sorted now...

cjblack532 - just spend more time with the new girl, and continue to develop a nice relationship with your older friend

wizards? - (probably sorted by now but eh I'm answering) seeing as you said you'd see how it goes with the first girl, you didn't make it exclusive so just spend time with her on her own, and spend time with the other girl on her own. Don't act like it's just them. Be clear that you're not sure about whether you will want to take it further or not.

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acidrainman64 wrote on Oct 23rd, 2008 12:34am

okk..just to throw thos out before i post this..i SUCK with girls

so i knew this kid for a long time. i always knew who he was but we never realy hung out. he was on my baseball team last year and now hes one of my best friends. i love the kid like a brother. so anyways...his sister is CRAZZYYY hott.

she liked one of my close friends a LOTT. he basically stabed her in the back and crushed her heart. she starts goin out with another friend of mine recently. i could see right away that they were like awkward around each other blah blah...soo one day she IM s me sayin "lol...idk if i should break up with ralph or not..." . so being a guy and thinking with the wrong head i say tht she prob should break up with him...


so she broke up with him yesterday.
idk where to take this from here....
i flirt with her constantly and we get along really well

im thinkin tht she likes me but im not sure
shes always beggin me to hang out with her and stuff

we dont go to the same skool but we live in the same

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tom-the-lawn wrote on Oct 2nd, 2008 1:04am

No one seems to respond in this group anymore (well I posted here about 5 weeks ago and got no reply). Just go to the relationship thread in The Pit, you get a response within a couple of hours and it's much better.

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cjblack532 wrote on Sep 8th, 2008 7:05am

Alright, I have some trouble here, and there's these two girls that I like, but I am having trouble knowing which one I should potentially ask out...

First Girl
She's a Sophomore (I'm a senior). She likes the same music I do, I only recently met her this summer, but we get along real well. I'm 60% sure she likes me as well.

Second Girl
She's a Junior (It's just a coincidence they're all younger), but she doesn't go to the school I go to. She plays DnD with me and my friends, and is a good friend of mine. We get along real well, and I'm 80% sure she likes me as well.

I'm sorry if this sounds weird, but I like them both, and I can't decide. You can answer by commenting me or messaging me. Help me ladies of UG, you're my only hope.

-VMX

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OddOneOut wrote on Sep 1st, 2008 1:26am

Girls, I need some help.
http://profile.ultimate-guitar.com/OddOneOut/blog/ 42547/

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guitargurl317 wrote on Aug 30th, 2008 3:34am

-BlackZeppelin- wrote on Aug 23rd, 2008 at 4:08pm :


I'm having trouble with...

..actually, wait... I'm not having trouble with anything. I'M FUCKING SEXY!!!!!!

:haha: nice

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BringTheRain wrote on Aug 26th, 2008 8:58pm

I was absolute crap with girls before I found about the PUA online community, I could barely talk to the super-popular ones without stuttering or sound like an idiot. Most girls will deny it, but PUA game works. I'm not calling myself a "master pick up artist", as Mystery called it on his crap reality show, (which revealed some secrets to the game, I was pissed) but it helped my confidence so much. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and check out sedutionbase.com. Shit works.

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tom-the-lawn wrote on Aug 26th, 2008 4:09am

I ran out of room on my post below but my last sentence was supposed to be ' I severly doubt we'll be in any classes together'. But yeah to clue it up, what do you think I should do?

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