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Dimebag Dave wrote on Aug 12th, 2008 6:01am

Hello girls. I'm not having relationship troubles, owever, there is one particular question I'd like to ask all of you that's bothered me:

What exactly does it mean when a girl compliments your hair/wants to do stuff to it? Is it a sign of interest, or do they just want to mess with my hair?

I've gotten different opinions from everyone, but I'd like to hear all of yours. Thanks.

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spartan 118 wrote on Aug 12th, 2008 5:28am

I don't know, I just sort of have trouble talking to girls. I just get all nervous and say the wrong things. :(
Any way to stop this?

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guitargurl317 wrote on Aug 12th, 2008 5:17am

whatamidoinhere wrote on Aug 9th, 2008 at 7:07pm :


I would actually quite like one of these confidence boosts you're offering...
My name is Ben, and I'm going on holiday with two friends soon (to Devon!), and all of us are rather shy and quiet when it comes to ladies, so I wouldn't mind being able to get some confidence up and help us all out
(I do realise that any confidence boost provided may not actually be able to give me magical powers to attract large groups of women for my friends to enjoy so that they will like me more...but hey, every little helps!)

And if I came across at all like any kind of pervert/sexual predator...then for this i apologise...good day to you all


if u send me a pm, i can prolly help.

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whatamidoinhere wrote on Aug 10th, 2008 12:07am

I would actually quite like one of these confidence boosts you're offering...
My name is Ben, and I'm going on holiday with two friends soon (to Devon!), and all of us are rather shy and quiet when it comes to ladies, so I wouldn't mind being able to get some confidence up and help us all out
(I do realise that any confidence boost provided may not actually be able to give me magical powers to attract large groups of women for my friends to enjoy so that they will like me more...but hey, every little helps!)

And if I came across at all like any kind of pervert/sexual predator...then for this i apologise...good day to you all :)

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dilumari wrote on Aug 8th, 2008 9:56pm

hello, I would like to know how to initiate a conversation with a girl may it be chatting or in person. Also I am very impulsive and tend to have a crush on a girl I meet to quickly. The way I avoid this from happening is to act rude and careless to them.. Please help. Thanks.

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Metalcredge wrote on Aug 8th, 2008 12:37pm

The wonderful UG women are here to help you with your love endeavors, whether they are full-on relationships, one-night hookups, or just overall confidence boosts


*sigh*

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AlchJabu wrote on Aug 8th, 2008 12:28am

The_lizard_king has been sent a response!
Best wishes to you on your final decision! :)

and as for -BlackZeppelin- , good, you finally figured out where it is!
and next week I'll teach you where the washer and dryer are!
pffft, please, we take this place seriously so at least be somewhat mature! >:0

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Gibson Futura wrote on Aug 7th, 2008 4:03am

any tips for a guy who cant initiate conversation with girls at all
any tips or advice is appreciated, thanks

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Marrklarr wrote on Aug 4th, 2008 2:12am

thanks for any help you can give :)

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Marrklarr wrote on Aug 4th, 2008 2:12am

anything happen. this week we havent really talked about it, she is still friendly to me though.

Now im not even sure what i want at this point, college will bring many opportunities but a relationship is really attractive to me, and she seems like someone i could really like. but my question is about her... i honestly cant tell whether she is genuinely afraid of committment ect, or whether she is messing with me/rejecting me nicely. girls minds confuse me... especially hers :(

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Marrklarr wrote on Aug 4th, 2008 2:12am

hey, so ive been pretty good friends with this girl for a little over a year, and a few weeks ago we hooked up twice at parties (drunk both times). afterwards we both pretty much laughed about it, and agreed that it was fun. in talking about it later, i said that maybe we shouldn't let it happen again, because i thought i might become attached (true). she then told me that she already had some feelings for me. a week or so passed and the possibility of a relationship came up in conversation, and she said she was concerned about me going to college (in a month), even though im staying in town... and shes afraid because she was really hurt by her last breakup, which was her first. she also said she doesnt want to hurt her friend who is madly in love with me (annoying as hell). last weekend at a party i was real drunk and she sober, and i told her i had feelings for her (not really true, i think i just wanted her to kiss me). she basically rejected me that night, we flirted a lot but she didnt let anythin

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Mr. Thingy wrote on Aug 1st, 2008 2:11am

Hey, um... any suggestions for raising one's self-confidence?

Thanks. :\

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-BlackZeppelin- wrote on Jul 31st, 2008 11:07pm

The kitchen...


It's that way. :p

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The_lizard_king wrote on Jul 31st, 2008 7:29pm

I am in a bit of a dilemma here. My ex girlfriend likes me alot and she keeps flirting with me. One side of me loves the flirting but the other side possibly my practical side thinks its not good and its all in the past. My friends hate her too, so if I went out with her they'd stop talking to me. Should I tell her to stop flirting now or should I avoid flirting with her for a few days and than tell her stop flirting so it won't be awkward. I am very confused here. Thank you for your help.

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yellowfrizbee wrote on Jul 27th, 2008 5:29am

SuPaGrAm has been replied to

:)

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SuPaGrAm wrote on Jul 25th, 2008 9:03pm

Well this is about a friend but i figured this was still the best place to post it

Shes still mad at me, she had a fight with me (i really had no part in it, it was actually all her..) but thats not the important part. After she apologized, shes still mad! Shes avoiding me and the only times she will talk she turns everything into a fight...

First: Why would she assume that iv stuck by her for almost 2 years now and id suddenly just throw away everything to make her feel bad?
Second: How is she still mad!! Its been almost a week since the 'fight'

She frustrates the hell out of me sometimes but i really do love her...

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gibson_10 wrote on Jul 18th, 2008 5:20am

Ok so I posted this in the relationship thread, but seem to do better off posting here, anyways.

I was dating this girl I really like, but last week I was asking her about going out again sometime, and she said "well I like you and stuff, I just like, dont want a boyfriend at the moment:S" (this was over msn, big mistake I know, but I wasnt really asking her out, I was just kinda playing around with the idea) and Im pretty sure there is/was another guy, so I dont know what to think.

But I dont know how to take "well I like you and stuff", like should I take this as she was trying to let me off easy? But I know she has problems in her life so I'm thinking that could be the reason why, what do you think?

And I still really like her, I think im going ot give it about a month and see if she feels the same then, or do you guys think I should just get over it and move on?

Thanks

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AlchJabu wrote on Jul 15th, 2008 10:36pm

rizo299 has been sent a response!
Good luck with your final decision!
and as always,
~Peace, AlchJabu:heart:

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rizo299 wrote on Jul 14th, 2008 4:46pm

She wasn't just a scarecrow enthusiast, she was some sort of scarecrow fetishist.

She looked slightly offended that I'd taken off my blindfold. Where as I imagine I just looked completely shocked and confused, although certain things seemed to make a lot more sense. I made some excuses and left pretty quickly.

My question is, what should I do? Should I have stayed and just gone along with what ever freaky stuff she was planning and avoided offending her? Should I apologise or demand an answer or what?

I know this sounds absolutely ludicrous but people warned me she was weird, I just had no idea how weird I suppose.

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rizo299 wrote on Jul 14th, 2008 4:45pm

And it just after my seeing that, that she walked in. Stark naked, bar a bonnet with a blue ribbon on it, an old fashioned neck scarf and a thick layer of make-up that made her face pale white, but with rosey red cheeks and scarlet lipstick. Like a doll.

And that's when it hit me. She was made up like Aunt sally from Worzel Gummage.

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