Dear UG Ladies - Advice for the Romantically Hopeless

I'd like to keep asking how to cross over from friendship to romantic relationship.

We get along great. We're friends, and we've been hanging out together (sometimes even alone) more than usual. She's as good as good can be. Compatible. Gorgeous, smart, huge sense of humour, and she's even starting to learn guitar. : There's lots of innuendo floating around, but it's more part of the humour, than a "do me here, girl" kinda thing. Specially since a lot of it comes from her. Humour apart, it drives me mad inside. She seems to like fondling. I can't remember why, but she grabbed my hand while we were walking. This is something I usually do to females I care about - I started gently rubbing her hand with my thumb, which, I think, was the only finger that could freely move. And she... liked it. Ever since, she seems keen to hold hands while walking. She also seems to like to hold my arm. You know that pose that is seem as somewhat old-fashioned, holding out your arm so the lady can cross hers? She loves it.

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So, I'd just like to ask.

When is the right moment to kiss the girl, and how the hell do I know when it is?

Looking back at the times I meet girls that I'm attracted to, and atleast seem to be attracted to me, I always go, wth? Why didn't you just kiss her? Last weekend, this happened again. Even though we were both kinda drunk and all. But still, I was hanging over her on a kitchen counter, etc, and how I ended up not doing it, I have no idea...

So any pointers here?

I'm not even going to ask about relationships, because, well. I somehow doubt I'm going to meet someone who'd actually be in a relationship with me. (So much for being a long haired rocker, eh?)

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dear ladies,

i have been cursed with being single for my entire life, and i would desperately like to find someone to "pair up" with. someone to care for, someone that means something to me, someone to love.

sadly, the only girls i know are friends, and i doubt they see me as anything more. im not good when talking to girls. i tend to have a passive insult ability, i find it easy to pick out faults and i can be quite mean about it.

so, what im asking, is basically for some advice of being tactful when talking to females, and not being an arsehole all the time.

im starting to get desperate, and im going to be virtually alond over the summer because my family are going away, and i would desperately like someone to have fun with. and someone to love.

thanks

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Dreadnought wrote on Jun 13th, 2008 at 10:48am : I'd like to take this time to thank all of the lovely ladies of the world for being the best damn heartbrakers and lovemakers on the planet.

It's because we're cute, sweet Foxy Ladies You'll get the right girls if you keep up the song references


Thank you both for the appreciation, we're happy to help
roonman93, you have been sent a response.
Sorry for the delay my dears, my internet isn't working properly. I'm currently using my brother's laptop.

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Dreadnought, at least they keep you grounded, and how well do they do that! Great work by the laideez of UG to set this up... Here's hoping i will never have to use it, having a lovely lady of my own already

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I'd like to take this time to thank all of the lovely ladies of the world for being the best damn heartbrakers and lovemakers on the planet.

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hey ladies,

theres this girl i know who i'm really good friends with and now i really like her

we have the kind of friendship where sometimes we tell each other we love each other just so we can make sure the other doesn't forget, but i want to make her my valentine, if you will, so am i trapped???

you don't know how much you're helping me, thanks

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Dear ladies,

Whats a good way to ask a girl to be my girlfriend?

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umbrellacorp wrote on Jun 2nd, 2008 at 10:46pm : What do you have to do to attract a girl? I met this great girl at drivers ed but i'm afraid that if drivers ed ends and i don't do something ill probably never see her again. What should I do?

Start talking to her more and involving yourself with what she's doing at the class. If she's struggling, give her a hand, and always greet her with a smile, I guess.

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What do you have to do to attract a girl? I met this great girl at drivers ed but i'm afraid that if drivers ed ends and i don't do something ill probably never see her again.
What should I do?

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iceyice wrote on Jun 2nd, 2008 at 5:59pm : Yo Not looking for help just saying good on you ladies givin us clueless guys a helping hand. Most mean well but are kinda clumsy in the delivery of their messages of love and whatnot. So props to you!

Thank you! It's our pleasure really =] We know you guys are all wonderful innately, some of you just need help showing it

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Yo
Not looking for help just saying good on you ladies givin us clueless guys a helping hand. Most mean well but are kinda clumsy in the delivery of their messages of love and whatnot. So props to you!

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selkies, Surak, and, FruscianteFan77 have all been sent responses

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Hey, there's this girl I'm starting to like who goes to the same school as me. I think she's noticed me a bit but I'm not sure if she likes me or not. I'd like to get to know her before asking her out, but she doesnt go to any of my classes and I don't see her anywhere else. The thing is, there are only about 7 days left of school! How could I get to know her before asking her out in anywhere other than school or before school ends?

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Could you send me the reply you send to ARCtrooper225, cause' I'm more or less in the same situation.

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hey i was wondering like at what age do girls stop playing stupid games in relationships and actually have a relationship cus im getting tired of all the bull shit i just want a real relationship

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KenMasters has been replied to =]

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help me friend Vintage...
i like this girl..
i am almost 99% sure she liked me some time ago...
i didn't do anything coz a friend of mine had a major crash on her, and even if she told him off, he kept glued...
Now it has been almost half a year and i seem to like her again...

Ah, i forgot to mention, we don't talk anymore, partly because of the company split-up, partly because i happen to get easily mad on people over liitle things...
we are both invited to my best friend's party...
what can i do?

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search49, ibanez_2892, and wizards?, you have all been sent responses =]

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Hey, I'm having some self esteem issues, I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder, and it's pretty much ruining things for me. I can't talk to people anymore, and everyone I know is taken, so really I can't go and meet new people. any ideas?

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