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turning blue wrote on May 13th, 2008 6:25pm

thank you brother, and that's what I ended up leaning towards. I wrote her and apologized for being so forward. We've since had a good talk and agreed that the friendship is the most important thing right now (which it definitely is) and if things change in the future for her and I'm still around, then we'll see what happens then.

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af_the_fragile wrote on May 13th, 2008 5:34pm

Oooh, the last comment didn't fully come up...
But all i was saying was i'ld advice you to hold in your feelings till they're still married. You really don't wanna be a reason for their break up cuz thats the worst thing you could ever do to anyone. If they separate on their own, you could then make your move on her. Though if you do get along with the woman, you're very likely lose your guy friend. And if they don't seem to separate, just remember there's plenty more fish out there in the sea!!

And sorry girls if i'm interfering in your job here!! :)

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af_the_fragile wrote on May 13th, 2008 5:27pm

turning blue wrote on May 12th, 2008 at 10:29am :


G'day ladies. K, here's my deal. I'm nearing 30 and I've been divorced for almost a year and have been living with a good friend and his wife for a good portion of that time. Well, their relationship is very rocky and I sit here and watch as she's not respected at all by him, and emotionally treated very poorly. And at the same time I'm falling hard for her. She's the epitome of everything I've ever looked for in another human being. She's given him a "last chance" to straighten up and talks like it's already over half of the time... well, the other day I let slip that I have feelings for her (to which she replied with a very sweet "awwww" ) and things don't seem to be weird between us, but I was wondering if I should reserve my emotions more (as the are still married) or just see where my heart takes me... any thought would be greatly appreciated

not a girl,
but i'ld say hold your emotions till they break up. One of the most horrible things you c

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turning blue wrote on May 12th, 2008 3:29pm

G'day ladies. K, here's my deal. I'm nearing 30 and I've been divorced for almost a year and have been living with a good friend and his wife for a good portion of that time. Well, their relationship is very rocky and I sit here and watch as she's not respected at all by him, and emotionally treated very poorly. And at the same time I'm falling hard for her. She's the epitome of everything I've ever looked for in another human being. She's given him a "last chance" to straighten up and talks like it's already over half of the time... well, the other day I let slip that I have feelings for her (to which she replied with a very sweet "awwww" ) and things don't seem to be weird between us, but I was wondering if I should reserve my emotions more (as the are still married) or just see where my heart takes me... any thought would be greatly appreciated

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af_the_fragile wrote on May 12th, 2008 12:25am

OKay, so tomorrow i'm going to watch Saul Williams...
So any tips on how to make new friends at a gig???...???!

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Insicion wrote on May 11th, 2008 8:31pm

Hey ladies i need some help, imagine this scenario:

I make eye contact with this girl across my classroom for a few seconds, i turn back around and she is looking at me. I want to approach her/ get to know her/ talk to her.

The thing is, I have no idea what to say. She knows ive taken a glimpse on her a few times and i think it's time for me to meet her. Im also not the most hubris person.

Any tips/advice? Thanks. :)

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vintage x metal wrote on May 11th, 2008 4:27pm

BFMVrrule, umbrellacorp, TDKshorty, and Joey-Tribiani, you have all been sent replies
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Sorry for the late responses!

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TDKshorty wrote on May 11th, 2008 6:48am

can I get an answer to my question ?
:)

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rosamamosa wrote on May 11th, 2008 6:29am

Joey-Tribiani wrote on May 10th, 2008 at 1:59pm :


hello ladies of UG
I was just wondering how important is a guys look to you. i, for one, am not that good looking, and ive been wondering if that is a major problem when it comes to dating...
im really insecure when it comes to my appearance...and its bothering me with getting girls to like me....i mean, im a really friendly guy, and im really funny, i can talk to anyone like theire my best friend, but is that enough?


i'm not going to lie and say it doesnt have any impact at all, but i think, at least in my case, that looks can't make that big on an impact. like if i already like a guy, his looks won't change that. and if i don't likehim, i won't suddenly like him if he's hot.

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GiantRaven wrote on May 10th, 2008 8:47pm

Suddenly! Girls! Thousands of them!

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Joey-Tribiani wrote on May 10th, 2008 6:59pm

hello ladies of UG :)
I was just wondering how important is a guys look to you. i, for one, am not that good looking, and ive been wondering if that is a major problem when it comes to dating...
im really insecure when it comes to my appearance...and its bothering me with getting girls to like me....i mean, im a really friendly guy, and im really funny, i can talk to anyone like theire my best friend, but is that enough?

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lucid_strat wrote on May 10th, 2008 6:53pm

Oo my fav Gustav Klimt painting.

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TDKshorty wrote on May 10th, 2008 7:37am

umbrellacorp wrote on May 9th, 2008 at 9:28pm :


Hey ladies. I have a simple question. I was in a relationship but we broke up. How do you get over that? I can't even pursue another relationship cuz i cant stop thinking about her.


I'm a dude btw.

How long ago did you guys break up?

the answer is just stop thinking about her and have a positive mindset, if you guys broke up it wasn't meant to be, which means someone else that is more compatible with you is somewhere in the future, just think positive, if she wants to make you feel bad, why think about her, you don't fret your time worrying about bullies and pricks do you?

Also play some video games or hang out with your friends more







QUESTION!
What is up with me? I've been attracted to this one girl for almost a full year now no one else, just her. I don't talk to her every day, or even often, but I always think about her, and that's not "me". She lives in a different town so I can't see her ,and I dnno what to do ( I don't drive, I'm 17)
b

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umbrellacorp wrote on May 10th, 2008 2:28am

Hey ladies. I have a simple question. I was in a relationship but we broke up. How do you get over that? I can't even pursue another relationship cuz i cant stop thinking about her.

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vintage x metal wrote on May 10th, 2008 1:50am

p o e wrote on May 9th, 2008 at 1:15pm :


Dear ladies of UG,
i just had to say, i only come here to read losers posts
it entertains me.




wait, you girls arent losers, i meant the guys asking you stuffs.

You know, being nice to us won't make you any less of a douche for saying that :p

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p o e wrote on May 9th, 2008 6:15pm

Dear ladies of UG,
i just had to say, i only come here to read losers posts :)
it entertains me.




wait, you girls arent losers, i meant the guys asking you stuffs.

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BFMVrrule wrote on May 9th, 2008 1:13pm

hi ladies :)
i have come here mainly to express my feelings.
well anyways i never seem to have any luck with girls im 15 and only ever had one girlfriend and even then i was chasing her for 4 months! I am useless in talking to girls and i never know what to say in a 1 on 1 coversation (its different over the net lol) every girl that i like these days ends up not talking to me anymore and im not sure why, it could be that i message them too much or what not. ill tell you of a girl that ive liked recently
well this girl she was really gorgeous n we were really good friends, we had been for ages and well i kinda got attracted to this girl and i told one of her friends, which as you might know told that girl.. well neways after she told her she stopped speaking to me, stopped replying to my messages, and stopped looking at me at school.. we have sorted it out and it turns out that she just wanted to stay friends.. but why couldnt she just be upfront and tell me that?
i sometimes feel that im useless at every

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RevaM1ssP1ss wrote on May 7th, 2008 11:39pm

foo_diddles wrote on May 3rd, 2008 at 3:31pm :


i don't believe there are so many girls on u-g, or that even know what u-g is, specially since every girl i know has actually googled "u-g".


>__>

Welll erm... there are? Okayyy

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vintage x metal wrote on May 6th, 2008 11:58pm

black007hawk2, guitarplayerV, and Roy McCartney, you have all beensent responses
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black007hawk2 wrote on May 5th, 2008 6:55pm

Alright, I'll give this a try. :) I know this girl, and we've been great friends for a while, and I like her alot. Normally, I would just ask her out or something, but here's the problem: she lives 200 miles away from me, and I hardly ever get to see her. So my question is this, should I just give up hope about starting a relationship with her? Should we just stay friends?

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