Dear UG Ladies - Advice for the Romantically Hopeless

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guitarplayerV wrote on May 5th, 2008 4:13am

hi im gregg
im single but there is this girl and ive known her for a very long time and were really good friends and we both have liked eachother on and off but im not sure if i should try i should try to actually start something with her or just leave it the way it is?

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Roy McCartney wrote on May 4th, 2008 11:11pm

Dear UG Ladies:

Hi. I'm Roy. I have a girlfriend, she is nice, cute, but recently she gets mad of everything, we fight a lot, well, I'm not happy. But as a coincidence, I met a girl, and she likes what I like, I mean, music, books, bands, etc.

The question is: If I'm fighting a lot with my girlfriend, who doesn't likes what I like, what should I do if the other girl seems to like me, although I have 1 and a half year of relationship?

Thank You

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foo_diddles wrote on May 3rd, 2008 8:31pm

i don't believe there are so many girls on u-g, or that even know what u-g is, specially since every girl i know has actually googled "u-g".

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Heafyman wrote on May 3rd, 2008 4:48am

:haha: this is hilarious. I'm not suprised that it's so popular though

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OddOneOut wrote on May 2nd, 2008 10:01pm

luv090909 wrote on May 2nd, 2008 at 2:37am :


Ok so i like this girl in my class.......and i mean weve been flirting on and off and what not but the thing is that.... now i have no idea what to do next i mean shes single yes...and im looking for a stable long term relationship any idea???
Message sent, although I'm sure some other girls have some great advice that they'll be willing to send you (knowing me I'v probably missed something out) :) x

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luv090909 wrote on May 2nd, 2008 7:37am

Ok so i like this girl in my class.......and i mean weve been flirting on and off and what not but the thing is that.... now i have no idea what to do next i mean shes single yes...and im looking for a stable long term relationship any idea???

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RevaM1ssP1ss wrote on May 1st, 2008 4:25pm

wow I was gone a few days and look what happened, super! :)

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vintage x metal wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 11:22pm

Nutter_101 wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 at 3:56pm :


Hi, yeah...
Well, I'm having trouble with my girlfriend. See, she keeps getting out of the kitchen. Now, I know, I know, I should use the stungun I bought, but I'm worried about killing if I shock her 12 times a day.

So my question is really, have you got any ideas how I can psychologically/safely trap her in there?


Cute. Now GTFO.


af_the_fragile, stoner179, kristiantomasso, and FOCOrock, you have all been sent responses and should be recieving messages.
=]

We're getting a lot of new faces!

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Nutter_101 wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 8:56pm

Hi, yeah...
Well, I'm having trouble with my girlfriend. See, she keeps getting out of the kitchen. Now, I know, I know, I should use the stungun I bought, but I'm worried about killing if I shock her 12 times a day.

So my question is really, have you got any ideas how I can psychologically/safely trap her in there?

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slann101 wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 5:50pm

i have no questions atm. but be sure, i will :)

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af_the_fragile wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 12:42pm

So today there was this cool looking redhead chick at my bus stop (basically she lives in the same place as me if she was at the bus stop), and as there's just one bus at the stop, she got on the bus and all along i was speculating all the ways i could spark up a conversation with her in a pretty much empty bus with just the two of us in it...
Well, long story short, i didn't do anything!!

But then there's hope. I may see her again tomorrow? or maybe another day?? After all she lives in the same residential development as me... Or so i presume!
SO how could i make something out of this situation?? She looked about the same age as me n wasn't completely hooked in her phone texting someone all the time either... So any girls have any advice of whats a safe n effective way a guy could approach a girl in this situation??

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stoner179 wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 4:19am

Ok so im currently going out with this girl. Im a junior and she's a freshman but its not a big deal with the age..its only 2 years. So we've been hanging out for a while and stuff and i asked he out the other day and we'r egoing out. There is a little problem though. Its one of my sister's friends..not a bestest friend thing but just a friend...and she is being really gay about it even though when she dated one of my friends i just said meh whatever its not my problem. Anyway..she told my mom about it and now my mom is freaking out because my mom has heard of this girl sneaking out and stuff to hang out with me and junk. This is making her not want to be seen by my parents to bad but oh well. We plan on hanging out over here within the next couple of days and my mom can think what she wants cause we will be in my room upstairs...but anyways..any advice?

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kristjantomasso wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 4:00am

so i like this girl, we're acquainted as we were both in the same class for 2 years, and we have talked a few times but nothing too long. I've kinda had a crush on her for a little while, however my best friend asked her out and she said yes. they only went out for about 10 days and they broke up. my question is
1) is it cool to ask her out?, i don't wanna start anything with my friend
2) any advice on how to start a conversation with her.

thanks a bunch!

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FOCOrock wrote on Apr 28th, 2008 3:07am

This girl I know (22) wants to have sex with me (18). I'm still virgin. I don't even know what to do? Do I shave, do I cut my hair, write her a ballad to sing in the middle of intercourse.... What does a nervous guy like me do?

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af_the_fragile wrote on Apr 27th, 2008 6:36pm

Aah, thanks for the little reassurance about my appearance!

As for looks, i think we all would like someone who's presentable. I personally would like a good looking presentable girl. But if she had a zero personality, that would instantly put me off her. Though i feel a lot of times people associate good looks to being a nice person or a good personality.

Well, i would like a good looking girl and i'ld also like myself to look good too. Both for me and for her so that even she feels good about who she's with. Like its one of the little things i can give her... a decent looking boyfriend!! :)

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vintage x metal wrote on Apr 27th, 2008 5:44pm

af_the_fragile wrote on Apr 27th, 2008 at 12:23pm :

Actually you know what, i sometimes feel this way too.
Do women really judge guys according to their physical appearance or do they speak the truth when they say its personality that matters, not looks??
So here's my question,
Do looks matter for a girl???


I could ask you the same question about guys and get the same response:
First impressions will always be on looks if you dont make it otherwise. However, it always changes the more you talk to someone. Personality does matter more, but if someone only knows you by your looks and a simple comversation, they dont have much to base off of.
Yes, personality is more important, always. But you cant expect personality to play a key role for people who dont know you very well.

As for whether or not girls care about looks.. that depends on the girl.
Neither of you have anything to worry about, since neither of you are unattractive. Plus you dont want shallow girls in the first place, do you?

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af_the_fragile wrote on Apr 27th, 2008 5:23pm

ctb wrote on Apr 25th, 2008 at 6:50pm :


why do i feel that so many girls judge me by the way i look?

Actually you know what, i sometimes feel this way too.
Do women really judge guys according to their physical appearance or do they speak the truth when they say its personality that matters, not looks??
So here's my question,
Do looks matter for a girl???

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ss311 wrote on Apr 27th, 2008 5:17pm

Well, this is my last year of high school, and can I just have confirmation that it would be ill-advised to start anything with a girl for the next three months, considering that we'll be in different countries by September?

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The Charm wrote on Apr 27th, 2008 7:56am

WHAT THE HELL?? THERE ARE WOMEN ON THE INTERNET? SINCE WHEN? WHY AM I NOT TOLD THESE THINGS?

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vintage x metal wrote on Apr 26th, 2008 7:43pm

punk_guitarist wrote on Apr 25th, 2008 at 5:30pm :


so..yeah. this is pretty much my first time asking for advice in these sorts of matters...

I've known this girl for a while now (maybe..like a year or so) and we both dig each other, and it's known to both of us. Now, that being said...

I really don't know where to go. I mean, when we both told each other that we have feelings for one another, we were both still in a "i just want to have fun" stage. And lately, we've been flirting heavily lately, and idk if this is a sign or anything. I want to ask her out, but i'm not sure how to go by asking if she's ready to make this serious. would asking her if she's ready make me sound rude or something?


Replied, you should be recieving a message =]


why do i feel that so many girls judge me by the way i look?


I replied to you as well!

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