ManicBluesist wrote on Aug 19th, 2008 at 3:43pm : i cant initiate conversations with random women i would like to meet. any tips?
Depends where they are. If you're at a gig, then just comment on their band shirt if they're wearing one. The important thing is to start the conversation. Once you're talking to a girl you like, just talk to her like you would any other friend, but drop subtle hints and flirt a bit as well.
guitargurl317 wrote on Aug 13th, 2008 at 2:37am : im just going to answer Dimebag Dave's question from the comment board.
sumtimes girlz jus like playing with hair, but it culd also mean ther interested in u and ur hair iz one of the many reasons why they like u.
First off, your spelling and grammar is horrible. Just thought I'd tell you that.
Anyway, girls have randomly played with my hair before and I'm sure they don't like me. It's just cause I'm a guy with long hair who doesn't mind if they play with it, and also apparently my hair is really soft and nice. So, I think it depends on whether the girl normally plays with hair and also whether girls normally play with your hair or not.
[QUOTE u='ManicBluesist' d='2008-08-19 15:43:40']i cant initiate conversations with random women i would like to meet. any tips?[/QUOTE]
Depends where they are. If you're at a gig, then just comment on their band shirt if they're wearing one. The important thing is to start the conversation. Once you're talking to a girl you like, just talk to her like you would any other friend, but drop subtle hints and flirt a bit as well.
[QUOTE u='guitargurl317' d='2008-08-13 02:37:55']im just going to answer Dimebag Dave's question from the comment board.
sumtimes girlz jus like playing with hair, but it culd also mean ther interested in u and ur hair iz one of the many reasons why they like u.[/QUOTE]
First off, your spelling and grammar is horrible. :D Just thought I'd tell you that.
Anyway, girls have randomly played with my hair before and I'm sure they don't like me. It's just cause I'm a guy with long hair who doesn't mind if they play with it, and also apparently my hair is really soft and nice. So, I think it depends on whether the girl normally plays with hair and also whether girls normally play with your hair or not.
ManicBluesist wrote on Aug 19th, 2008 at 3:43pm : i cant initiate conversations with random women i would like to meet. any tips?
Depends where they are. If you're at a gig, then just comment on their band shirt if they're wearing one. The important thing is to start the conversation. Once you're talking to a girl you like, just talk to her like you would any other friend, but drop subtle hints and flirt a bit as well.
guitargurl317 wrote on Aug 13th, 2008 at 2:37am : im just going to answer Dimebag Dave's question from the comment board.
sumtimes girlz jus like playing with hair, but it culd also mean ther interested in u and ur hair iz one of the many reasons why they like u.
First off, your spelling and grammar is horrible. Just thought I'd tell you that.
Anyway, girls have randomly played with my hair before and I'm sure they don't like me. It's just cause I'm a guy with long hair who doesn't mind if they play with it, and also apparently my hair is really soft and nice. So, I think it depends on whether the girl normally plays with hair and also whether girls normally play with your hair or not.
i kno my spelling and grammer suk...its cuz i dont care about it on the internet.
altho u do make a good point about whether they normally play with hair or not. id giv u 2 kudos if i culd.
[QUOTE u='Skater901' d='2008-08-26 09:32:25'][QUOTE u='ManicBluesist' d='2008-08-19 15:43:40']i cant initiate conversations with random women i would like to meet. any tips?[/QUOTE] Depends where they are. If you're at a gig, then just comment on their band shirt if they're wearing one. The important thing is to start the conversation. Once you're talking to a girl you like, just talk to her like you would any other friend, but drop subtle hints and flirt a bit as well.
[QUOTE u='guitargurl317' d='2008-08-13 02:37:55']im just going to answer Dimebag Dave's question from the comment board.
sumtimes girlz jus like playing with hair, but it culd also mean ther interested in u and ur hair iz one of the many reasons why they like u.[/QUOTE] First off, your spelling and grammar is horrible. :D Just thought I'd tell you that.
Anyway, girls have randomly played with my hair before and I'm sure they don't like me. It's just cause I'm a guy with long hair who doesn't mind if they play with it, and also apparently my hair is really soft and nice. So, I think it depends on whether the girl normally plays with hair and also whether girls normally play with your hair or not.[/QUOTE]
:haha: i kno my spelling and grammer suk...its cuz i dont care about it on the internet.
altho u do make a good point about whether they normally play with hair or not. id giv u 2 kudos if i culd.
ManicBluesist wrote on Sep 20th, 2008 at 6:14pm : i was at a rugby game on friday and got a girls number thanks to that, i just said she had cool hair, thanx skater901
get it get it get it!!!! lol.
congrats dude!
can any1 help me out....i kinda like this guy...and this girl and i dont kno who to pik. if hav questions, u kno, to like help me out, send me a private message. thanx lotz
[QUOTE u='ManicBluesist' d='2008-09-20 18:14:28']i was at a rugby game on friday and got a girls number thanks to that, i just said she had cool hair, thanx skater901[/QUOTE]
get it get it get it!!!! lol.
congrats dude!
can any1 help me out....i kinda like this guy...and this girl and i dont kno who to pik. if hav questions, u kno, to like help me out, send me a private message. thanx lotz
guitargurl317 wrote on Sep 23rd, 2008 at 8:00pm : can any1 help me out....i kinda like this guy...and this girl and i dont kno who to pik. if hav questions, u kno, to like help me out, send me a private message. thanx lotz
You might want to elaborate more on this. Tell the full situation.
[QUOTE u='guitargurl317' d='2008-09-23 20:00:54']can any1 help me out....i kinda like this guy...and this girl and i dont kno who to pik. if hav questions, u kno, to like help me out, send me a private message. thanx lotz[/QUOTE]
You might want to elaborate more on this. Tell the full situation.
ok. so girl 1st
her name is Aislynn, yes, the very same Aislynn in my band. shez jus so amazing. shez beautiful has the most fun personality. she has one of the most gorgeous undiscovered voices you will evr hear. i've liked her since the first time i saw her and i havnt been able to get her out of my head
now the guy
his name is Joe. i've liked him a little longer thn i liked Aislynn. but he plays the saxophone, very funni, sumhow manages to jus look average, thn is very hot out of nowhere. great great great smile.
ok. so girl 1st
her name is Aislynn, yes, the very same Aislynn in my band. shez jus so amazing. shez beautiful has the most fun personality. she has one of the most gorgeous undiscovered voices you will evr hear. i've liked her since the first time i saw her and i havnt been able to get her out of my head
now the guy
his name is Joe. i've liked him a little longer thn i liked Aislynn. but he plays the saxophone, very funni, sumhow manages to jus look average, thn is very hot out of nowhere. great great great smile.
ManicBluesist wrote on Sep 20th, 2008 at 6:14pm : i was at a rugby game on friday and got a girls number thanks to that, i just said she had cool hair, thanx skater901
Haha serious? That's awesome. I completely forgot about this thread and my reply. Good to know it helped someone. (Y)
guitargurl317 wrote on Oct 10th, 2008 at 11:52pm : ok. so girl 1st
her name is Aislynn, yes, the very same Aislynn in my band. shez jus so amazing. shez beautiful has the most fun personality. she has one of the most gorgeous undiscovered voices you will evr hear. i've liked her since the first time i saw her and i havnt been able to get her out of my head
now the guy
his name is Joe. i've liked him a little longer thn i liked Aislynn. but he plays the saxophone, very funni, sumhow manages to jus look average, thn is very hot out of nowhere. great great great smile.
Well, here's my two cents. I'd go the guy, cause a) he plays sax and that's wicked, and b) I'd imagine that sex between a guy and a girl is better than sex between two girls. Of course you probably don't have to worry about that second point, but hey I'm being blunt.
But really, I can't give any better advice than that because I'm yet to work out how to decide who to pursue if I have casual crushes on a few people. So I hope that helps.
reachammad wrote on Oct 11th, 2008 at 4:51pm : I like this girl, But i can't start a convo with her .. if she's with her friends OR alone
well... she's with friends most of the times.
Could anyone help? Thanx (can you pm me... to whoever answers me))
See my above post on talking to girls. If you need any more help, PM me or I'll try and remember to check back here.
[QUOTE u='ManicBluesist' d='2008-09-20 18:14:28']i was at a rugby game on friday and got a girls number thanks to that, i just said she had cool hair, thanx skater901[/QUOTE]
Haha serious? That's awesome. :haha: I completely forgot about this thread and my reply. Good to know it helped someone. (Y)
[QUOTE u='guitargurl317' d='2008-10-10 23:52:47']ok. so girl 1st
her name is Aislynn, yes, the very same Aislynn in my band. shez jus so amazing. shez beautiful has the most fun personality. she has one of the most gorgeous undiscovered voices you will evr hear. i've liked her since the first time i saw her and i havnt been able to get her out of my head
now the guy
his name is Joe. i've liked him a little longer thn i liked Aislynn. but he plays the saxophone, very funni, sumhow manages to jus look average, thn is very hot out of nowhere. great great great smile.[/QUOTE]
Well, here's my two cents. I'd go the guy, cause a) he plays sax and that's wicked, and b) I'd imagine that sex between a guy and a girl is better than sex between two girls. Of course you probably don't have to worry about that second point, but hey I'm being blunt.
But really, I can't give any better advice than that because I'm yet to work out how to decide who to pursue if I have casual crushes on a few people. So I hope that helps.
[QUOTE u='reachammad' d='2008-10-11 16:51:59']I like this girl, But i can't start a convo with her .. if she's with her friends OR alone
well... she's with friends most of the times.
Could anyone help? Thanx (can you pm me... to whoever answers me))[/QUOTE]
See my above post on talking to girls. If you need any more help, PM me or I'll try and remember to check back here.
im terrible at this, well sometimes, i mean im getting better, but sometimes ill just be thinking of shit to say, my head will start spinning, and i cant start a convo or say anything, its a fucked up terrible feeling, it especailly happens if i drink caffine, caffine makes me more socially akward, so i avoid that shit.
im terrible at this, well sometimes, i mean im getting better, but sometimes ill just be thinking of shit to say, my head will start spinning, and i cant start a convo or say anything, its a fucked up terrible feeling, it especailly happens if i drink caffine, caffine makes me more socially akward, so i avoid that shit.
Im pretty good at I think, as far as what to say.... the problem is sometimes I just get sorta nervous and my voice slurs or stutters. Stuttering is expected though.... but its weird how it slurs.... I have no idea why. Everything just comes out like blehblehbleh as if my tongue was numb or something. :/
Im pretty good at I think, as far as what to say.... the problem is sometimes I just get sorta nervous and my voice slurs or stutters. Stuttering is expected though.... but its weird how it slurs.... I have no idea why. Everything just comes out like blehblehbleh as if my tongue was numb or something. :/
timo1 wrote on Jan 9th, 2009 at 7:27am : I'm one of those people who try and get girls attention instead of just going up to them.
Help?
alright alright. personally, i dont like loud guys. and i think alot of other girls agree with me. and the girls that dont... welllll... no one cares. anyways, girls like to talk about things they like. it is amazing if you can find a chick that has similar interests as you.
music, movies, TV, school... etc. a topic both of you can talk about. and thats where it all starts.
i'm a big geek but im really shy. i met my current boyfriend by asking him if he wanted to play wii with me online. now we are inseparable. oh, and try many places to look for a girl. dont just think school is the only legal place. have fun with it ^__^
[QUOTE u='timo1' d='2009-01-09 07:27:12']I'm one of those people who try and get girls attention instead of just going up to them.
Help?[/QUOTE]alright alright. personally, i dont like loud guys. and i think alot of other girls agree with me. and the girls that dont... welllll... no one cares. anyways, girls like to talk about things they like. it is [i]amazing[/i] if you can find a chick that has similar interests as you.
music, movies, TV, school... etc. a topic both of you can talk about. and thats where it all starts.
i'm a big geek but im really shy. i met my current boyfriend by asking him if he wanted to play wii with me online. now we are inseparable. oh, and try many places to look for a girl. dont just think school is the only legal place. have fun with it ^__^
^Yeah, school can be a bad place to find a girlfriend. Especially if, like me, you're in your twenties. The it's pretty illegal, or at least extremely uncool.
^Yeah, school can be a bad place to find a girlfriend. Especially if, like me, you're in your twenties. The it's pretty illegal, or at least extremely uncool.
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies.
2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls.
3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies.
2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls.
3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
Haustinj wrote on Mar 22nd, 2009 at 8:54pm : Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies. 2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls. 3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
1, talk more like Captain Kirk, worst case scenario, you end up being some kind of hilarious sideshow.
2, that always sucks, i've been in that spot a lot of times, and the best thing to do is just be really nice to her... Maybe she'll see a flaw in him and leave him for you.
3, just tell her to get lost.
[QUOTE u='Haustinj' d='2009-03-22 20:54:09']Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies. 2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls. 3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.[/QUOTE]
1, talk more like Captain Kirk, worst case scenario, you end up being some kind of hilarious sideshow.
2, that always sucks, i've been in that spot a lot of times, and the best thing to do is just be really nice to her... Maybe she'll see a flaw in him and leave him for you.
3, just tell her to get lost.
Dude any form of a chick touching you mean she digs you. I'm a chick. That's how I flirt with guys. The main thing I look for in a guy (aesthetically) is long hair. So when I play with their hair it's cause I'm into them. Most chicks don't like guys who talk about wanting to kill everyone (just saying, this guy totally creeped me out, calling at 7 AM telling me how he wants to start a genocide). Confidence boost wise, just look good to yourself. I used to have my ego lower than anyone I knew. Once you think you look good, your confidence just follows suit. Even if it means spending a bit more money on yourself. I know that sounds really superficial, but its honest. Looking good is part of feeling good.
For picking up girls who the UG guys are probably into, go to local shows. Don't go to bars, cause all you'll get is bar sluts who you don't want a relationship with. I get hit on at lots of stores by my type of guys, so whereever your "type" of place is, (like a guitar shop) go look for chicks there, cause I highly doubt you want to go into a manicure place to get a highmaitenence chick.
Dude any form of a chick touching you mean she digs you. I'm a chick. That's how I flirt with guys. The main thing I look for in a guy (aesthetically) is long hair. So when I play with their hair it's cause I'm into them. Most chicks don't like guys who talk about wanting to kill everyone (just saying, this guy totally creeped me out, calling at 7 AM telling me how he wants to start a genocide). Confidence boost wise, just look good to yourself. I used to have my ego lower than anyone I knew. Once you think you look good, your confidence just follows suit. Even if it means spending a bit more money on yourself. I know that sounds really superficial, but its honest. Looking good is part of feeling good.
For picking up girls who the UG guys are probably into, go to local shows. Don't go to bars, cause all you'll get is bar sluts who you don't want a relationship with. I get hit on at lots of stores by my type of guys, so whereever your "type" of place is, (like a guitar shop) go look for chicks there, cause I highly doubt you want to go into a manicure place to get a highmaitenence chick.
timo1 wrote on Jan 9th, 2009 at 7:27am : I'm one of those people who try and get girls attention instead of just going up to them. Help?
I hate when guys do that!! It's obvious, but chicks like guys who make first moves, unless (in my mind) you get a butch chick who wants to be the man in the relationship. Just go up to a chick. Most of my friends are into guitar players or guys into music. If guys arent into music I don't know one girl who that isnt a turn off for. Music is a fantastic thing to start talking about. Mention something classic that you like that isn't very contreversial ie. Led Zeppelin. Randomly saying you're into something like Stray Cats or like.. Pet Shop Boys (something you need a specific taste for) is a bad idea cause she might really hate them. Going with a group from classic rock is playing it safe. Finding out more about what she's into will get you more safe cause if she's into Fats Domino, White Stripes and Led Zep, chances are she likes Cream. Etcetc. Pay attention to chicks // I hate when guys say "oh yeah" in the middle of my sentence, thus proving they weren't listening. Lol, I don't know if a chick was really supposed to post here.. but .. =]
timo1 wrote on Jan 9th, 2009 at 7:27am : I'm one of those people who try and get girls attention instead of just going up to them. Help?
I hate when guys do that!! It's obvious, but chicks like guys who make first moves, unless (in my mind) you get a butch chick who wants to be the man in the relationship. Just go up to a chick. Most of my friends are into guitar players or guys into music. If guys arent into music I don't know one girl who that isnt a turn off for. Music is a fantastic thing to start talking about. Mention something classic that you like that isn't very contreversial ie. Led Zeppelin. Randomly saying you're into something like Stray Cats or like.. Pet Shop Boys (something you need a specific taste for) is a bad idea cause she might really hate them. Going with a group from classic rock is playing it safe. Finding out more about what she's into will get you more safe cause if she's into Fats Domino, White Stripes and Led Zep, chances are she likes Cream. Etcetc. Pay attention to chicks // I hate when guys say "oh yeah" in the middle of my sentence, thus proving they weren't listening. Lol, I don't know if a chick was really supposed to post here.. but .. =]
Haustinj wrote on Mar 22nd, 2009 at 8:54pm : Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies. 2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls. 3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
Haustinj wrote on Mar 22nd, 2009 at 8:54pm : Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies. 2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls. 3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
1) Get more relaxed. OR say something nice. I've found that the delivery isnt that too important. And besides, saying ssomething that isnt too lengthy and then it should be good. If you get a luagh and a genuine smile then your pretty set.
2)Dude I got the same thing. Relationships dont last forever. You be there in times of happiness and be there in times of sadness...be the stability that she doesnt get from her boyfriend. Then when they break up...your golden.
3)Cute little kids are a chick magnet. Act like a good father figure and then its an imediate sign you're responsible and good with kids. Saying "fuck you, get lost" and then bitching about the kid to the girl would be bad. Badbadbadbadbad.
Hope that helped. But hey, Im a bonafied single dude who nobody likes, so take it with a grain or two of salt.
Haustinj wrote on Mar 22nd, 2009 at 8:54pm : Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies. 2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls. 3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
Haustinj wrote on Mar 22nd, 2009 at 8:54pm : Well, Where To Start?
1) I Have A Speech Impediment And I Stutter When I Talk To Ladies. 2) I've Fallen For My Best Friend's Girl And I Always Fall For Taken Girls. 3) I'm Being Harassed By Some 14 Year Old Girl. (I'm 18 Btw) I Don't Think She Means It, But It Is Killing My Chances When Some Little Kid Walks By Me While I'm Attempting To Talk To A Lady And Says, "HI" Or "Give Me A High-Five" Like I'm 8.
1) Get more relaxed. OR say something nice. I've found that the delivery isnt that too important. And besides, saying ssomething that isnt too lengthy and then it should be good. If you get a luagh and a genuine smile then your pretty set.
2)Dude I got the same thing. Relationships dont last forever. You be there in times of happiness and be there in times of sadness...be the stability that she doesnt get from her boyfriend. Then when they break up...your golden.
3)Cute little kids are a chick magnet. Act like a good father figure and then its an imediate sign you're responsible and good with kids. Saying "fuck you, get lost" and then bitching about the kid to the girl would be bad. Badbadbadbadbad.
Hope that helped. But hey, Im a bonafied single dude who nobody likes, so take it with a grain or two of salt.
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